The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

핵심 요약

• 진정한 변화는 겉보기 기술이 아닌 인품에서, 안에서 밖으로 일어납니다
• 그저 걱정되는 일 말고, 내가 바꿀 수 있는 일에 에너지를 쏟으세요
• 자기 사명을 먼저 정하고, 급한 일보다 중요한 일부터 일정에 넣으세요
• Listen to understand before you try to be understood, and look for win-win deals
• 몸과 마음, 감정과 영혼을 꾸준히 돌봐야 지치지 않고 나아갈 수 있습니다

이 비트의 내용

1. 변화는 내면에서 시작됩니다

   Imagine two people trying to fix a struggling relationship. One learns clever conversation tricks.

2. 내 영향권 안에서 주도하기

   Picture a JEE aspirant who blames the coaching centre, the syllabus and the weather for a bad test. Now picture one who asks what she can change before the next one.

3. 끝을 먼저 그리고 일정에 넣기

   Habit 2 asks you to begin with the end in mind. Covey suggests imagining your own funeral and hearing what family, friends and colleagues say about you.

4. 먼저 듣기와 윈윈

   Once you are steady on your own, the next habits are about people. Habit 4 is think win-win.

5. 시너지와 끊임없는 쇄신

   Habit 6 is synergize. When two people who trust each other bring different views to a problem, they can find a third option neither had imagined.

6. 직접 적용해 보기

   This week, catch yourself once when you say I have to, and rephrase it as I choose to. Spend 20 minutes writing a rough mission statement: what you want your family, your work and your own conscience to say about you.